Risky Play Behaviour in Kids
What is Risky Play Behaviour and should we encourage it?
This month we explored the world of risky play behaviour in our Wide Bay Kids. We first looked at the fundamental functions of risky play behaviour and the different types of risky play that have evolved over time.
What is Risky Play?
“Risky play is thrilling and exciting forms of play that involve a risk of physical injury. It primarily takes place outdoors, often as challenging and adventurous physical activities, children attempting something they have never done before, skirting the borderline of the feeling of being out of control (often because of height or speed) and overcoming fear” (Sandseter, 2009; Stephenson, 2003).
We asked six professionals in our Wide Bay community who work with children every day their thoughts on the topic and this is what they told us.
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I believe that "risky" or explorative play is not only good it's essential in a child's development. Allowing your child to make mistakes, fail and take age-appropriate risks is how we, as parents, prepare them for the world. As adults we actively seek out danger and adventure in the forms of sky diving, fast cars, motorcycles, travelling abroad, quitting one job for another and many other physical and financial risks. What better way to learn how to tackle those future endeavours than to have a few adventures where a parent won't immediately bail them out? To sum up, the best quote I can think of is from Jordan B. Peterson "Question for parents: Do you want to make your child safe, or strong?"
Nathan Van der Klugt - Rhee Tae Kwon Do Bundaberg
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Most children are competent and capable of assessing and managing risk, it is often the adult that can hinder this confidence and agency in children. Risky play is an impactful way to learn about consequences and problem solving and further develop their cognitive skills. This can also give a child a sense of empowerment and power as they are able to have the freedom to make their own choices in their play. Children who are provided with opportunity to assess and manage risk at an early age will be better equipped to navigate risk as an adult”
Jasmine Harris - Connections Play Therapy
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Risky play is imperative for children to experience. This does not mean play which endangers a child's wellbeing, but play that will test their limits. Through taking risks while playing in a safe and supportive environment, children can experience a variety of emotions: thrill, fear, joy, excitement and pride. These opportunities encourage a growth mindset - can't do it YET and then to think creatively on how to achieve their goals through persistence and resilience. These characteristics created by risky play are important for a child's social-emotional and physical development.